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I woke up so early this morning and kept thinking the same thing over and over–I had to blog. Blog what? Blog what’s been going through this head of mine. I’ve always been a firm believer that we all go through trials so that we can be used to help others that may be struggling through the same things. Helping one another–carrying one another–it’s how we make it.

Have you ever noticed that 9 times out of 10 we realize our need for God when we are in a crisis, having family issues, going through health problems or suffering with major feelings of inadequacies and more? I’ve noticed that in my own life at times. Now is one of those times. This pregnancy has been the hardest things that Daniel and I have ever been through. The sickness, trouble breathing, mucus, severe back pain and now Bell’s Palsy. BUT- through all of it, we have noticed how the Lord has gently carried us through it all. He’s protected Stevie and in the weirdest way–drawn us closer to him.

I am always humbled at the way God loves me. A love I could never earn or deserve. He’s taking away the things in my heart that have calloused and disillusioned me in the past few years and he’s teaching me to love again, love people and love Him. I wanted to blog this as a reminder to myself that no matter what–God’s love is what matters and what counts, and I’m thankful for the reminder just before Stevie arrives, so that I can be better prepared to be the mother I need to be.

A special thanks to the 30 or so people who made my Saturday and baby shower so memorable!! Here’s an iPhone picture from my fabulous friend Paula from our Augusta baby shower this weekend. These are the girls I grew up with. Can you tell how much they love me? They offered up crooked smiles to match my own. I love it! More pictures to come soon…

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I certainly don’t know HOW this week has just flown by. We’ve got a great weekend planned…but I just could not pass up sharing a few sneak peeks from our shoots in the past 7 days!

{Married!} Justin & Danielle

{Kids & Babies!} Leah

{Engaged!} Justin & Abby

On a personal note, keep us in your prayers…I got diagnosed with Bell’s Palsy today. Meaning…I woke up with the left side of my face weak and drooping. It typically clears up with meds {I’m on them now} and after delivery. Thankfully, sweet Stevie is not hurt or affected by this AT ALL. It’s just a little inconvenient, and needs a follow up by a neurologist next week. So if you see me with a crooked smile…know that it’s temporary….

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dorian I love you Candice!!!!!

Carla Eustache Candice, thank you for sharing your story. You and Dan are two of the sweetest people I know and you both are walking testimonies to others through your actions of love and compassion that you show to each other and to people you don't know. I'm praying for your continued strength through this journey and look forward to the healthy arrival of Stevie.

Kellan Oh my heart feels so many things reading this and seeing this picture. It is funny how God works through the most random of situations. I am amazed at your grace to walk through such a hard physical trial, one that attacks not only your femininity but your desire to enjoy pregnancy. There is no doubt there are worse things in the world and you ability to focus on the fact that Stevie is safe and sound and totally oblivious to your many ailments through this pregnancy are a blessing. What a testimony you have to others to rely ruthlessly on God's sufficiency when we feel some "unfair" cards have been dealt our way. Praying for a miraculous, EARLY recovery from the Bells Palsy...that you don't have to suffer with it all 6 weeks. Your friends are a cup of cold water, I love that you can laugh at this when a knee jerk reaction is to cry and wall up your heart in self-pity...and who would blame you. May God richly bless your socks off these last few weeks until you can hold your sweet Stevie in your arms. Praying for you friend.

Katie Jo Life is all about the trials. I think you are handling them with grace and poise. I admire your bravery for sharing this part of your life. I can definitely relate, based on some autoimmune issues I have dealt with. Although, I haven't dealt with such issues during a pregnancy. You're a strong woman, with the companionship of a strong man. Baby Stevie is lucky to have such awesome parents. Hang in there...

Jenny J Cook You are one tough cookie, Candice. What a wonderful Mother you will make. Little Stevie girl is a lucky babe. Stay strong, mama. She's almost here!

Gayle McKinley Hi Candice, I read your story, and just wanted you to know you and your family are in my prayers.

Rhondi Hi Candace I was just surfing this morning and ended up here. I didn't know you were expecting. Congratulations! I am so happy for you. Getting Bells Palsy while you're pregnant really sucks...That is so cute of your girlfriends to mimic your crooked smile. Hugs from Rhondi (Elevation)

Brooke Smith Oh how I love you my dear sweet friend. You are such a trooper and you will only see the LOVE our sweet Jesus has for us even more when your baby girl gets here. I think once you are a parent, you truly understand the Lord's love. Well, as much as our flesh can understand. You are beautiful, even with a silly smile. I LOVE YOU to the moon and back. BFF's FOREVER!!!! HAHAHAHA! Friends ALWAYS!

meredith huntley fabulous work as usual! and you are in my prayers. hope you have a speedy recovery! :)

Rensche Mari Cant wait to see these! It looks awesome. Hope you get well soon, my gran got it because her AC was blowing on her face while sleeping...so stay out of the cold too!

Andrew Davis Gorgeous!!!!

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